Team Six
Professor Gonzalez-Morales
ENC 1102 @ 7:00 AM
04 February 2010
Relationships, the Duracell™ Batteries of Our Lives
Every person out of the 6.8 billion inhabitants of this planet we call Earth has something or someone that gets him/her ticking. Relationships fill individuals' lives with exhilarating moments and warm emotions. They supply the strength needed by those individuals during hard times as well as they motivate them to live life without limits. No matter what type of relationship, they all add a little grain of sand to one's life.
"Just don't give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong," said Ella Fitzgerald. I believe that love is the strongest force in the world. Once you have found it you do anything to keep it. Therefore, love plays a big factor in motivation. We want to do great things in order to show to our loved ones that we are capable of anything in order to make them happy. Your loved ones motivate you to go past your boundaries and you try your best to impress them with all the things you have accomplished.
A helpful article on family importance states: “A family unit is the unit which builds up a person's personality. How you behave and what you become in life is very much dependent on your family life.” (The Importance of Family Life) We should all believe that our families are like support beams for us, both emotionally and physically. It’s a proven fact that no structure can survive without the proper support or base. Humans are sculptured the same exact way. From a young age, we are taught to love, care, protect and motivate one another. These are things that most cannot live happily without. Thankfully, we have our families. The people that truly love us unconditionally, those who will do merely anything to support us. When in a bind, financially or emotionally, you can always count on them. While some take pills, others, such as me, see our family members as stress relievers as well. It’s truly an exceptional feeling knowing that one can come home after a stressful day and simply just sit down with the family, whether it be at the dinner table communicating about our day, or simply bonding while watching some TV. Regardless, having your family around charges us all up and gets us ready to move on for another day in this hectic world.
Motivation does not always come from material things. Neither does it always come from family. Sometimes you get motivated by the most insignificant thing, something you wouldn’t even know matters so much, “friendship”. “The best thing a friend can do for another friend is simply motivate” (Sibiya) the rest of the things in life can be secondary when it comes to motivation. It’s all an adventure where you will find yourself provoked to seek your goals in life. Because friendship motivation is so huge, it can bring joy, happiness and a smile even on the worst day of your life!
Even though relationships spike up our motivation, sometimes relationships themselves need some sparks. One of the things that will ignite relationships is happiness. As Dan Buettner said on a recent interview, “If I had to boil happiness down to one key, it would be to surround yourself with the right people. Friends have a long-term, measurable, demonstrable impact on us. Are the ten people you spend most of your time with grateful? Are they trusting and trustworthy? Do they nudge you toward physical activity? Do they make you laugh?" They key to relationship motivation is in happiness and surrounding yourself with the people that matter and make a difference in your life.
No matter how common or unusual a relationship might be, the only thing that matters is how positive it is and how it motivates you. Go out and start new friendships, new relationships, work-related, school-related, church-related, it really doesn’t matter as long as it motivates you to do what you want to do or what is the right things to do. Go get the Duracell™ Batteries of your life. There’s just one problem these you can’t buy at a convenience store.
Works Cited
Pearson, Stephanie. "The Age of Adventure." Outside January 2010: 58-62.
Schoeneberger, Megan. Ella Fitzgerald First Lady of Jazz. Mankato, Minnesota: Capstone Press, 2005.
Sibiya, Zamani. "Friendship = Motivation." 29 May 2008. mikevu.com. 30 01 2010 .
"The Importance of Family Life." 2007. Grandma's Craft Guides. 29 01 2010 .